Alberta is trying to melt...

Finally, at long bloody last, we have had a week with temperatures well above freezing, and as I ignore the growing slushy puddles, I dream of summer.

 Typical Alberta scenes.

The landscape is still marbled with patches of 

brilliant white snow, 

and dull lifeless fields of brown.  

Green shoots of life are a few weeks away yet.

But those skies keep on pleasing.

A Tuesday in March

Love that the clocks went forward because the evenings are beautiful and light.

Hate that the clocks went forward for a few days though - how can one hour make so much difference to waking up in the morning?

Er, it's still cold

It snowed heavily in December.

It's now March, right?  In my head it should be Spring.

Those exact same December snowflakes 

are still on my back deck.

Where were my warming chinook winds this year?

Yep - these pictures just about sum it up.

Getting used to a new normal

My eldest daughter (who was 16 yesterday - how did that happen?) was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes a few months ago.  Not even three months actually, but it seems like forever to me!

Ironically, it was on "World Diabetes Day"   How's that for timing?!

Type 1 diabetes is an auto-immune disease, and it can just happen.  It's apparently nothing she did or we did, and it's nothing to do with a poor lifestyle or eating too many sweets, which is what most people mentally link "diabetes" to (and the next paragraph will tell you why people think this).  It's not hereditary but her genetics could have made her more pre-disposed to get it.  Her pancreas just decided to give up and now she needs insulin several times a day.

And it is quite different from the more commonly known Type 2 diabetes which is what about 90% of people with diabetes have and which is frequently linked to lack of a healthy lifestyle and eating habits.  The huge rise in Type 2 diabetes unfortunately runs parallel with increased levels of obesity. It's not the only cause, of course, but it is the main story.

Here's a scary statistic.  In 1985, there were about 30 million people with Type 2 diabetes.  By 2010, that had risen to 285 million!  Oh dear.  And I think I might be a candidate if I don't get my unhealthy backside in gear.

At home, I have morphed into the "nag" - the mum who goes on and on.  I do try not to, but it's necessary right now so... well, so be it.  Her dad is trying to remain collected and be the reasonable one, and my other daughter (who is 14 next week) is feeling a touch of the green-eyed monster as her sister gets a fair bit of attention right now.  Again, we are trying to negate this, but ....what a balancing act for everyone!

The team at the local children's hospital have continued to be great, and supportive and I have been told, in no uncertain terms, by our GP to make the most of this, and to accept any service that is offered.  For when the child transitions into the adult health care system, it can be very hit and miss and there are gaping holes in the support system and the requisite health checks.  Luckily my GP's clinic also has an experienced diabetic team so fingers crossed that my daughter is able to educate herself sufficiently in the next two years so that she is able to manage her diabetes in a successful way.

What I have to remind myself on a daily basis is that this is ultimately her journey and health issue, and as the mum I will no doubt worry forever, but she is the one that must live with it, manage it, and suffer the consequences if there is a poorly-managed lifestyle.  Sucks really!  But it's not insurmountable, and nowadays there are tons of positive role models to prove that diabetes need not hinder you in your goals and dreams.  You just have to take responsibility for yourself.

I am impatient for her to "get it", to absorb the routines into her whole being; for it all to become a completely natural part of her life.  I need her to pack, organize and grab her kit by instinct. This is going to take a distracted and busy teenager a while to accomplish.  But it's kinda important. 

So I will continue to nag, nudge, suggest and harangue my daughter for a while longer. 

And we will all continue to work on the new normal.

Alberta weather being kind

It has been one of those beautiful clear winter days - the kind that is momentarily warm enough to undo your jacket, bask in some sunshine, and dream of Spring.

The snow is melting a bit - and boy, we have had a lot. December came in hard and fast and was the month that just kept on giving.  Inches of the white stuff.  My back garden is still 10 inches deep.

The dogs loved the opportunity to run today.  Dog outings have been mostly short, brisk and functional these past few weeks.

Honey relishes the whole back-rub thing.... 

... again and again and again.

However, during this hazardous sport, snow does get in your ears.

Smudge finds golf ball, one of those left-over-from-the-summer balls, as it emerges from the melting frozen course.

And just look how much fun you can have hiding a white golf ball in white snow.

You can pounce and dig for hours with this game.

And as ever on my blog, I insist on showing you the mountains.  You can't get bored of a view like that, can you?

And if you do, perhaps you can fly off somewhere new?

Visiting the home country

Belatedly, I hope you all had a great Christmas and New Year.

We spent a lovely couple of weeks visiting family and friends in the extremely wet and soggy and some-time flooded Surrey and South London area of the UK.  This was our first Christmas back here since emigrating six and a half years ago...

It was busy, wet, fattening, windy, wet, exciting, wet, tiring, funny, pretty, expensive, and did I mention that it rained occasionally? However, after flying out from the snowiest Calgary December on record for 112 years, I was enjoying the look of green grass, which was visible when it wasn't flooded! 

Visiting the UK often brings out my inner tourist, 

with an obligatory wander around London 

to see the Christmas lights.

This is Covent Garden, an indoor market/mini mall of fancy goods - with a delightful glitter ball and giant decorations - it looked so pretty even though we were freezing our arses off during yet another storm of sideways wind and rain.

We arrived home yesterday to -21 degrees and tons more snow.  Hmmmmm.

I am wishing you all a very lovely, peaceful and fun 2014.  Buckle up folks - here we go!

Big changes at home

There has no been no proper blogging for quite some time. For the past 8 weeks or so, my 15 year old daughter has been struggling with life, school, anxiety, pressure and a growing fatigue and withdrawal that has been worrying (to say the least), frustrating for us as parents to watch, and when she refused to go to her dance classes two weeks ago, we knew something was up.

Last Friday she was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes.

It was not exactly good news, but it was at least a partial answer to what has been going on with her.  And just a bit of a shock really.

I cannot praise the staff at Alberta Children's Hospital enough.  We have been back and forth to that facility quite a few times in the past couple of years (broken foot, concussion, inability to walk last year following the concussion, counselling - all for the same child!) - and as soon as the diagnosis for the diabetes was in, they wasted not one minute.  The slick operation in place as they welcomed her into the Endocrinology/Diabetes clinics was clear, professional, informative, and importantly, non-frightening.

Our routines must adjust to a life of finger prick blood tests, sugar levels and 4 to 5 insulin injections a day.  Our meal planning now comprises counting carbs (and seems a remarkably similar concept to counting Weight Watchers points, just with a different emphasis!) but the biggest adjustment will be for my daughter.  I can't be more impressed right now - she has so far taken it all in her stride, but I'm waiting for the big crash of reality to hit....this is it, what, like forever?

Next important bit of business will be to choose a medic alert bracelet.  

And even in the face of adversity, she has to be up to date and stylish.  Look at the one she likes!  A Hunger Games Mockingjay pin - she will be my brave heroine now.